Contemplative Haven

Longing to return to God but feeling her soul “chained down by its passions”, Perrine turned to the Virgin Mary, her “tender Mother”. She made a novena before the feast of the Purification, then “went before her altar and burned a candle and soon I felt my heart entirely changed.” One of her first decisions afterwards was to return to her original confessor for spiritual direction.

Then she made an eight-day retreat, began to understand how she had been refusing to cooperate with grace, vowed her loyalty to God, and was re-admitted to frequent Communion.

She became devoted to Mary, “realizing with what mercy this divine Mother had retrieved me from the abyss”, and asked Mary to obtain for her “the grace of a religious vocation”.

Shortly thereafter Perrine “began to experience a great longing to leave the world.”

[The Golden Arrow. The Autobiography and Revelations of Sister Mary of St. Peter (1816-1848) on Devotion to the Holy Face of Jesus, edited by Dorothy Scallan; translated by Father Emeric B. Scallan, S.T.B.]

When Perrine was a teenager and came of working age, she was employed in the dress shop of her aunts. She was received into a lay apostolate called the Congregation of the Most Blessed Virgin, one of her aunts being the superior. This was an apostolate for working girls; there were no vows, but rules that “tended to preserve piety in the hearts of the young women who were members.” After her probation, Perrine made her consecration to the Blessed Virgin Mary.

At this point, she says the Lord made her “pass from Thabor to Calvary”; her consolations stopped and she experienced “spiritual dryness and interior aridity”. She could not feel the love of God, tried to regain the “delightful transports of Divine Love” through her own force in meditation, but of course to no avail. Though not committing grave sin, she became lukewarm and turned away from the Lord. She also changed confessors at this time, which she ended up regretting, because she felt that her new confessor did not understand her soul, and he took her off frequent Communion, which certainly couldn’t have helped matters.

So from approximately seventeen years of age to nineteen-and-a-half, she “became very imperfect” and “gave myself up to distractions and became lukewarm in the service of God.” In hindsight, Perrine says that the most harmful thing she did to her soul at this time was to give up the practice of meditation.

[The Golden Arrow. The Autobiography and Revelations of Sister Mary of St. Peter (1816-1848) on Devotion to the Holy Face of Jesus, edited by Dorothy Scallan; translated by Father Emeric B. Scallan, S.T.B.]

He who binds to himself a Joy
Doth the winged life destroy;
But he who kisses the Joy as it flies
Lives in Eternity’s sunrise.

[He Who Binds to Himself, by William Blake]

Sister Mary of St. Peter was born in 1816 on October 4th, the feastday of St. Francis of Assisi and also the anniversary of the death of St. Teresa of Avila (though we celebrate St. Teresa’s feastday on October 15th). She was named Perrine Frances, and baptized in Rennes, France.

At the age of one month, baby Perrine was accidently dropped into the flames of a fireplace by one of the children of her wet nurse; her face always retained a mark from that burn. At four years old, she contracted scarlet fever and nearly died; she was in grave danger for nineteen days.

In her autobiography and revelations, Perrine speaks of her disposition as a child as being mean, often angry, stubborn, jealous of her older sister, disagreeable, proud, full of self-love, always misbehaving at home and at Mass.

She made her First Confession at the age of six-and-a-half, and over the course of the next few years found herself improving. Her parents told her beautiful stories about the Blessed Virgin, and she prayed to Mary to help her in this improvement. She began to enjoy prayer, and no longer had any difficulty in behaving when at Mass; quite the opposite. She enjoyed her Catechism classes very much and also began saying the Stations of the Cross, deeply moved by the sufferings of Jesus. As young as she was, she had heard there was a kind of prayer called “mental prayer” and wanted to practise it, but because she didn’t understand what it was, she tried practising it as vocal prayer but without pronoucing the words! Intuitively she knew this likely wasn’t correct, because it always left her feeling that she “hadn’t said her prayers”. Not long afterwards she was in church and heard a sermon being given on meditation: “I, therefore, opened my ears and my heart to such a happy instruction, rejoicing to know at last how to make mental prayer”.

At the age of ten-and-a-half, Perrine made her First Holy Communion “with great fervor”, having prepared for it with the sacrament of confession, where her heart was greatly touched by the Lord’s grace. She gave herself completely to God at this time. That very same day she received the Sacrament of Confirmation and was also invested with the Scapular of Our Lady of Mount Carmel, placing her under the protection of our Blessed Mother, to whom, she says, “I felt I owed my conversion”.

At the tender age of twelve, Perrine experienced what she called a great trial sent to her by her Saviour, intended to drive pride out of her heart forever. She felt under attack by Satan in the form of doubts and scruples, believed herself to be committing sins every moment and agonized over her past childhood failings. She examined her conscience endlessly, but avoided confession because she never felt well-enough prepared or sufficiently contrite. Doubt even entered her prayerlife and she would continually re-start her prayers thinking they had not been said well enough: “This repetition was as ridiculous as it was sad.”

Also at this time, Perrine’s mother died. Remembering that St. Teresa of Avila’s mother had also died when she was twelve, she followed Teresa’s example and begged the Blessed Virgin to be her mother: “The most holy Virgin must have granted my petition, for ever since that time I have always felt her maternal protection.”

Several years later the Lord delivered her from her “interior darkness and her scruples.” A lady-friend mentioned Perrine’s problem of being too afraid to enter the confessional to the parish priest, explaining how she turned and left the church every time her turn in the line-up came around, after having prepared for hours. The priest was moved to intervene the next time the situation occurred, encouraging her to the point of ordering her to make her confession without delay, paying no attention to her doubts and arguments. He absolved her, then counselled her on scruples and also on her prayerlife. She felt that “Satan was overthrown by my obedience”, and she was “filled with confidence and peace of mind.” Perrine came to be granted “signal graces”at Holy Mass and “inundated with consolations” in Holy Communion. At this point in her life she became “continually aware of the presence of God.”

[The Golden Arrow. The Autobiography and Revelations of Sister Mary of St. Peter (1816-1848) on Devotion to the Holy Face of Jesus, edited by Dorothy Scallan; translated by Father Emeric B. Scallan, S.T.B.]

Every morning when I turn on my computer, my homepage says:

Sympatico.ca -  Where Canadians start their day

Catchy, I suppose.  Sad, really.

Let’s start our day with prayer, my fellow Canadians.  I promise it will give you a whole different perspective on those headlines you’re confronted with every morning.

Artwork:  “Dawn”, by Tom Thomson (Group of Seven)

Part 6: Exploring Prayer of the Heart (Based on Chapter 31) Way of Perfection

Sister Donna does such a thorough job in Part 6 of explaining Chapter 31 that there is really nothing left of the chapter for me to highlight!  I love her own comparison of this prayer of quiet to a baby totally surrendering to sleep in the arms of a trusted parent.

Perhaps I will just re-emphasize one point in the chapter that Sister Donna has also covered in her video, that of the desire one feels to prolong this state, because I think it is something many of us have experienced, especially early on.  Teresa writes:  “The will is the one that is captive here.  If there is some sorrow that can be experienced while in this state, that sorrow comes from a realization that the will must return to the state of being free.”  A little further in the chapter, where Sister Donna speaks of some peoples’ fear of even taking a breath lest the prayer of quiet disappear, Teresa says, “This is foolish, for just as there’s nothing we can do to make the sun rise, there’s little we can do to keep it from setting.  This prayer is no longer our work, for it’s something very supernatural and something very much beyond our power to acquire by ourselves.  The best way to hold on to this favor is to understand clearly that we can neither bring it about nor remove it; we can only receive it with gratitude, as most unworthy of it…”

I would like to thank Sister Donna once again for her work in putting together this series and sharing both St. Teresa of Avila’s insights with us, as well as her own. God bless and protect you in your continued evangelization and in your life of prayer, Sister Donna, and know that we are inspired and grateful for you living out your vocation in such a way that we all may benefit from it.

Prayer for All the Faithful Departed

Heavenly Father, I believe that in Your wisdom and justice You willed to purify all persons who die without having attained the state that they need for all eternity, all who have still to expiate completely the sins committed on earth. I also believe that You have mercifully arranged that this process of purification can be aided by the prayers of the living, especially the Eucharist.

Help me to pray for my brothers and sisters who have departed from this world. May their time of purification be short and they be quickly guided into that holy light promised by our Lord to Abraham and his descendents. I offer You sacrifices and prayers of praise. Accept them for all the souls of the faithful departed and admit them all to heavenly joy. Amen.

[From: The Catholic Book of Prayers]

Beautiful.

Fun.

Autumn Closing (Bliss Carman)

The show is over, and the leafy tent
All gold and crimson where the sunlight lingered
Through the slow afternoon, is coming down.
The bittersweet is scarlet on the bough
Reluctant to be gone, though frosts have strewn
Patins of glory on the forest trails,
While tatters of torn splendour go to feed
The smoky bonfires in the village street.
What singer pipes the closing autumn hush
With surest note of cheer in all the wild?
A dauntless minstrel of the changing year,
Chickadee of the wilderness! He knows
What sweetness gathers in the winter’s heart,
What saving oracles the North Wind sings.